I just posted this on
Bargain Believer,
but figured I wanted a record of it here . .
A quick (okay, if you don't know me . . . maybe more like medium to long length) personal story to encourage you all to see beyond the deal — which can sometimes be a blinder for me.
Just as I like to get good deals, I also like to save on the necessities, one being electricity. Something that just doesn't happen around this Bargain Believing house is leaving a light on all night.
My son has a dim night light, but also likes to have the hall light on when he goes to sleep. It's usually not a problem. I just turn it off after he falls asleep or as I'm going to bed.
Well, last night he was up late and I was going to bed a little bit early. I attempted to turn it off, but my 10 year old wasn't asleep . . .
Son: "Mom, can you leave the light on?"
Me: "No, I'm going to bed."
Son: "But, I'm used to it on and I get scared."
Me: "But, you have a night light."
Son: "But, I like it on."
Me: Thinking, thinking, praying, listening, praying, listening . . . "Okay, I'll leave it on."
Son: "Thanks, good night."
A little while later, after no further discussion or conversation about why:
Son: "Mom, you can turn the light off if you want. That would cost a lot of money
to leave it on all night." (Yes, he's definitely my son!)
Me: "No, I'll leave it on. It's not that much."
Son: "No, you can turn it off."
Me: "That's alright. It's important to you, so I'll leave it on."
I can't tell you how much his unselfish attitude blessed me. I witnesses a softened, kind heart that can sometimes get overlooked with normal day to day happenings. God planted a "yes" in my heart that will be a reminder of something I often repeat to my kids, "People are more important than things!"
Really, what did that cost me, 25¢? I'm not sure and I don't even care. I made my son feel more important than saving money and that's what he and I will remember — not having extra in the bank or to spend on something else far less valuable than him.
I share this, not to show how wonderful I am (really, a quarter?), but to honestly tell you that I constantly struggle to keep a balance in my life — bargains and beyond. It's not just bargains for me, it's also time. These precious years are flying by and I want to invest what I've been given wisely. Thank you, Lord, for blessing me well beyond bargains! What a treasure I have in my son!
Anyone else have a hard time seeing the big picture sometimes?